March 12, 2020
2020 is going to be the year we start taking shame seriously in the church, and one of the reasons for that is the number of […]
January 4, 2020
“What’s going to happen when they realise?” I have just sent in a chapter about shame for a psychology book. I’m not a professional psychologist, and […]
November 4, 2019
When we’ve done stuff we don’t want the world to see, we hide it away. That makes sense. But what can we do when there’s no […]
October 4, 2019
It’s been a very exciting week for me. We’re less than two weeks until the book comes out now. I got my hands on my copies […]
August 2, 2019
We all know shame is a problem. The question is: how do we get rid of it? There’s a lot of people in the missionary world […]
July 4, 2019
Last July, our family moved countries again - this time, from Australia to the United Kingdom; our third country in five years. I have to admit, it's been quite a hard time. When you're in the midst of transition, you expect to be disoriented, but in my case, I started to see my old struggles with shameproneness come back again.
May 6, 2019
Last week I was privileged to speak at a conference for Nigerian churches in Europe. I led a seminar about reverse mission, encouraging them to share the Gospel with their white British neighbours. But, well, you know me: somehow, the topic of shame came up.
April 29, 2019
Someone wrote to me the other day because they really weren't convinced about what I was saying: that our Western society is incredibly sensitive to shame. "Aren't we now getting more and more shameless?" It's a good question, because I think it helps us to understand some of our assumptions about shame.